The first step in cultivating romances that are successful is self evaluation

The first step in cultivating romances that are successful is self evaluation. Before you can pursue someone of the opposite sex you need to ask yourself some questions. Why do I want a ‘girlfriend’ or ‘boyfriend?’ Is it because you want to fit in? Is it because you want to be seen with someone of the opposite sex? Is it because you want attention? Is it because you want to feel better about yourself? If you are not comfortable with yourself before you begin a relationship, you won’t solve anything by starting one.
You have to break the myth that you’re ‘incomplete’ until you have found your ‘soul mate’. If you’re not a complete person before you begin a relationship, you won’t be ‘complete’ even with a ‘partner.’
Once you have the right motive for a romance, the second step is to begin a relationship. It’s not hard for most people to work out who they are attracted to but how they go about advancing the relationship is the issue. These days many relationships start with a kiss and then the couple begin to get to know each other. They eat the icing before they bake the cake. It’s completely back-to-front. The first step in beginning a romance is to become friends with the person you are interested in. You need to know whether you connect with the person emotionally