Did you know that studies show that 88% of women say that
they prefer "really good" oral sex over intercourse?
I've been
married over 20 years and let me just be frank that the first few
years with my wife was less than thrilling for her in the bedroom.
But I never
really knew it at the time. Women are good at hiding that sort
of thing. They want to make you feel like a stud so they will
tell you it was great and will even fake the orgasm.
I'd go down on
my wife (I knew about the study above) and she'd be all polite about it but it was pretty clear to
me that I was not giving her the intense pleasure I was aiming for.
So I sucked it
up and did the smartest thing ever.... I sought help. Yes, I
know that is the last thing we men want to do. We NEVER ask
for directions do we ;)
Fortunately I
have access to over 100,000 men and women who read my newsletters
and I asked them to give very specific details and advice on what
(in their personal experience) created the most enjoyable and
pleasurable sexual experience FOR HER.
87% of the
responses that came in had to do with going down on her. Women
said that nothing came even close to the pleasures they got from
being "eaten out" (the right way). They also said their most
powerful orgasms were as a result of a man going down on her.
I also received
a lot of emails from women saying that if a man was not a master of
the lick, then the experience was not all that enjoyable and
sometimes was quite uncomfortable for her. I could relate with
that. I thought I knew what I was doing but the reactions I
was getting (or not getting) from my wife made me realize I needed
to learn A LOT more.
Several women
made the comment in their emails that basically said "if she
is not BEGGING you to go down on her then you aren't doing it
right!". Women with multiple partners said only about
20% of the guys they were with were any good at eating pussy.
So I made it my
mission to become an expert at cunnilingus.
In addition to
compiling all the tips and suggestions from my readers I did a lot
of technical and scientific research on the female anatomy, nerve
endings, hormones and anything that can contribute to giving women
the most outrageous of orgasms.
In my research I
can across this study that said
that
less than 25% of women
actually reach orgasm from vaginal sex. And 40% of women don't even
enjoy vaginal sex AT ALL.
Scary
or what?!
It was time for
me to do my own "personal research". During lovemaking I
slipped my head
down between my wife's legs and tried out some of the tips and
technique my subscribers had shared. I soon heard an "Oh WOW" from
my wife. Clearly, she had never had this pleasure from
me before.
down between my wife's legs and tried out some of the tips and
technique my subscribers had shared. I soon heard an "Oh WOW" from
my wife. Clearly, she had never had this pleasure from
me before.
After minutes of
sighing and moaning and squirming with pleasure she broke out in a
heavy sweat all over, arched her back and begged me to keep going.
She said she had 4 orgasms in a row. Two is her typical max.
Giving her that
experience was satisfaction enough for me but she wanted to return
the favor and she lunged onto my manhood (she doesn't usually like
giving blow jobs) and gave me the most wonderful head. Score!
Now that I know
how to lick her like a pro, 69 is one of her favorite positions.
Don't be an idiot like me and go through years of giving mediocre
head because you think you know more than you do. Sure, you can
spending years "practicing" to try to learn how to give fantastic
oral pleasure but it is much easier to learn from the shared tips
and ideas of others. I just wish that I had been more humble
and sought advice earlier on.
Look
at these hard facts:
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81% of women reach orgasm from receiving oral sex* |
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88% of married women prefer cunnilingus as their preferred sex act* |
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the clitoris has 8000 nerve endings ready for pleasure (twice the amount of the penis)* |
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